I still remember the first time I slipped into a sherwani. It was not for an Indian wedding or an elegant themed event. It was for my own Jewish wedding. It’sa celebration that was already rich in Jewish tradition, but I wanted it to reflect all. I would always admire the color, detail, and splendor of Indian men’s ethnic wear. Why should I choose between the cultures I love when I could wear both?
And I’m not alone, here.
Around the world, Jewish grooms are exploring other ethnic cultures beyond the traditional tuxedo and exploring the world of Indian traditional fashion, including other rich cultures. Whether you love multicultural weddings, a destination celebration, or simply for more personal, expressive, or regal experiences. The combination is new, beautiful, and incredibly meaningful. In this blog, I will discuss the Indian tradition and Indian traditional ethnic outfits, mixing and matching accessories, and more. Stay with me.
Why Indian Men’s Clothing Resonates with Jewish Grooms
In Indian men’s wedding fashion, sherwani, kurta pajama, bandhgala, Dhoti Kurta and Nehru jackets stood for their symbol of royalty, respect, and cultural pride. It’s not just about how stunning the outfits are, but it’s also about the story they tell. Let’s be honest, the intricate embroidery and luxurious fabrics are showstoppers.
Similarly, Jewish weddings are also like Indian ones and are rooted in deep tradition. When I discovered that Indian fashion isn’t just clothing, it’s a cultural language, it felt authentic and aligned with my Jewish identity.
These Sherwanis and kurta Pajamas are handcrafted and their expertise passed through generations to reflect a spiritual theme just like our tallits, kippahs, and ceremonial wear. This is kind of reverence for tradition, this is why many grooms from Jewish backgrounds are now loving to blend styles for their big day.
What to Wear: Indian Menswear for Different Wedding Moments
For the Chuppah Ceremony
You can opt for a cream or ivory sherwani with subtle silver or gold detailing. Pair it with a customized embroidered kippah that matches your outfit to honor both cultures beautifully. Some even attach a small tzitzit inside the sherwani for a sacred, and look rich culturally.
For the Reception Ceremony
The reception is a kind of occasion where you can mix and match or go bold. A deep navy or emerald green Nehru jacket over a white or ivory kurta and tapered pants makes you look stunning without overshadowing. If you want to add a bit more flair, drape a brocade stole or shawl over one shoulder to bring the royal Indian energy.
For the Sangeet or Mehndi Ceremony
This is where you get to have fun and try many colors and outfits. Bright colors, mirror work, printed kurta pajama, or fusion Indo-western outfits with jackets and trousers work well. It’s just about movement, music, and enjoyment.
Types of Weddings Where This Blend Works Beautifully
- Second Weddings or Vow Renewals: Where Tradition Is Reimagined, Indian Wear Brings Fresh Energy.
- Jewish-Indian Interfaith Weddings: A perfect setting to wear an outfit that reflects both traditions.
- Destination Weddings: Indian attire stands out beautifully in scenic outdoor weddings, from beaches to vineyards.
- Jewish Weddings with a Global or Boho Twist: If the wedding leans modern, cultural, or personal, grooms are choosing Indian attire to make their look more meaningful.
Mix-and-Match Accessories Across Cultures
Here’s where things get creative and personal:
- Kippah with Sherwani: Choose one in silk or brocade to coordinate with your outfit
- Mojaris or Juttis: These traditional Indian shoes are ornate and comfy, perfect for long ceremonies
- Jewish Tallits over Kurta Sets: A beautiful blend for prayer moments or meaningful rituals
- Turban or Safa: Optional, but makes a grand statement, especially with subtle embroidery
- Pocket Squares, Brooches, or Layered Necklaces: Add a bit of fusion flair without clashing
You can also work with a designer or stylist to subtly incorporate Hebrew or Jewish symbols into the embroidery or accessories. One groom I met had his wedding date in Hebrew script sewn into the lining of his sherwani jacket. It was such a heartfelt touch.
Why This Matters: More Than Just Style
Choosing Indian attire for your Jewish wedding doesn’t mean abandoning tradition; it’s about expanding it. Fashion is one of the most personal forms of expression. When you dress in a way that celebrates both your culture and your heart, your wedding becomes more than an event. It becomes a story – your story.
I’ve had guests tell me how much they appreciated seeing something different, something bold, something that truly represented us as a couple. And when I looked in the mirror before walking to the chuppah, I didn’t just see a well-dressed man. I saw a version of myself that felt deeply rooted and joyfully free.
Final Thoughts
If you’re a groom planning a Jewish, Indian, or interfaith wedding, or just someone who wants to wear something meaningful, don’t be afraid to think beyond the tux. Try on that sherwani. Pair your kippah with a kurta. Stand under the chuppah dressed in a way that reflects all the parts of you. Because when fashion tells your story, you don’t just wear clothes, you wear connections.
